Winston Churchill is famous for a lot of things particularly some of the things he said. Perhaps the one thing that he said that resonates most with me are his comments about depression. Like many people in this world (great or otherwise), he was diagnosed with clinical depression. Mr Churchill referred to his diagnosis as the ‘Black Dog’. The fact that he gave his suffering a name would indicate that it was a constant companion. Throughout his life he often referred to the impact that his depression had on his life such as the time he stated that if he stood on a train platform he would like a pole between him and the oncoming train. It wasn’t fear of trains that made him say this. It was his fear of doing something irrational to ease his suffering. Winston Churchill was not the only great man to suffer. Abraham Lincoln also said that at times he was the “most miserable man alive”.
For a long time, depression came with a stigma attached. I’m sure there were many men and women misdiagnosed as being ‘crazy’ or ‘mental’ and spent the rest of their days in an insane asylum in days long gone. Certainly some of the symptoms associated with depression may give others rise to making the assumption of crazy. In this current time however, the stigma of having a mental illness (yes depression is classed as a mental illness) is not the same as it used to be. Today there are many options available to help those suffering overcome it and lead happy and healthy lives once more.
So where was I going with the black dog thing? That’s right… In medieval times a black dog was seen as a disguise of the devil. It was deemed bad luck to see a black dog and even worse if it had pups. Black dogs were seen as fiendish and threatening in folklore and if someone was sullen or upset, those around would say that a “black dog had walked over him”. The poor things really got a bad rap didn’t they? I guess I can understand why those who believed that they had reached the end of their tether and just wanted to crawl under the blankets and hide from the world used the description of a black dog to describe the way that they were feeling. The fact that a dog is a faithful companion could also be a factor in using the term.
So, I was thinking about this the other day and being the visual person that I am, my imagery of a black dog was that of a Labrador. There is nothing fiendish or cunning about that cute face (although those that own these dogs may beg to differ here – especially if they have lost sheets and towels from the clothes line). Possession of a big heart would preclude a Labrador from being described as evil. In actual fact, dog breeding sites list the Labrador as sunny, smart and hardworking. Most therapy and guide dogs are trained Labs. They love to play and will willingly engage in mischief without any prompting. Basically, a Labrador is the antithesis of Churchill’s black dog. So if I were to be visited by depression again (and I’m seriously crossing my fingers and doing all in my power to ensure that it doesn’t happen), I hope it’s a Labrador that knocks on my door.
I love your idea of a less heavy “black dog”. I hope to trade in my 8000lb snarling beast for one of those one day!
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I’m pleased that you like my analogy. I think labradors are just wonderful (although I probably don’t have the patience or a large enough back yard to own one). Hang in there. One day your snarling beast may just lay down beside you and put it’s head on your lap.
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Thank you for following us! I have been reading through your posts and wanted to tell you that you have a lovely way with words. Thank you for tackling such a difficult subject as depression. Your positive ways of dealing with it are an inspiration! Keep writing! I really think you are onto something good here!
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Thankyou so much for your kind words. I’m truly touched. 🙂
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I too suffer terrible bouts of depression…it started after a series of traumatic, tragic events…I truly believe it has everything to do with imbalances of chemicals (endorphins/serotonins/hormone fluxes) as well as other major health issues. AT least for myself, I am sure of it. Strangely enough, they all surfaced shortly after I got my first black lab….bless his precious heart! Those dogs have helped me through a lot of hard times.
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I think there are so many causes for so many different people. I believe that mine has been triggered by traumatic life events but being on the downhill slide to 50, the hormones are certainly not my friends right now I can tell you. Glad the labs could help you through. I think they are beautiful dogs.
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