LRB (or Little River Band) sang these lyrics in the 70’s:
I wanna recharge my batteries
Leave me alone for awhile
We’ll set off again in the morning
On a wing and a prayer and a smileShut down, turn off until the morning light
Slow down, splash down, time to end the flight
Make way dream time, here comes another night
I’m pretty sure that these lyrics indicate that the singer wants to ‘shut down for the night’ and forget about what has happened through the day before tackling the following day with a ‘wing and a prayer and a smile’.
Makes sense to me and sounds like great advice. You know the whole ‘shutting down and turning off thing’ is something we could all benefit from.
And it’s a pretty cool song as well.
Over the last few days I have noticed that people are becoming weary of all that is negative in the world.
Yesterday as I was chatting with one of my sister-in-laws and catching up on news about our little family she said to me “Thank you. Thank you for giving me some good news for a change. All I ever hear lately is bad stuff”.
And then this morning, I read a FB post from a friend who is concerned at the number of sad and bad news posts that are appearing in her feed. She wondered whether she may be contributing to that by sharing posts that are not positive or uplifting herself. And it is true. Many of the posts that people share tend to be about human suffering, politics, the state of the world or animal cruelty. Whilst it is good to raise awareness of many of these issues, it certainly takes a toll on people when they are constantly bombarded with negative issues day after day and hour after hour.
Yesterday I was reading this post that reinforced my belief that we are becoming weary. It’s a good read.
It’s not that we don’t care; because we do. It’s just that with the stressors of our own lives and then having the world’s issues brought a little closer to us in this day of fast paced media, things begin to take their toll. I am of the belief that the body is only equipped to handle a certain amount of stress and in this day and age, our bodies aren’t coping any more. Mental health issues are on the increase and I am not surprised.
So how do I cope with negativity seeing as I also suffer depression?
I remember writing (I think it was my second or third post on this blog) called Horror Movies in which I talked about having to walk away from the tv some nights. I am an emotional and empathetic person and I have to admit that lately the news is leaving me with my own battle scars. I have had to learn to walk away. It’s either that or become desensitised and I don’t want that to happen.
I have not cut myself off from the news. I am well aware of what is making headlines these days. What I do is watch (or read) the first report on something but I will not stick around to read (or listen)Ā to the rest of the details or the ongoing reporting of any news story (unless it’s a good news one). I think the sensationalism of some media outlets goes too far and at the risk of hurting my mental health I need to step away.
In this way, I remain aware to the issues of the world without becoming emotionally invested in them.
I also try to only fill my FB feed with good posts. I still read posts from some news services but the majority of my feed is filled with posts from comedians, friends, authors, other bloggers and uplifting pages such as Hay House, Jack Canfield, Louise Hay, Suspended Coffees, Healing Hugs and a number of others.
When I repost, it is something that has touched my heart in a good way.
Over the past couple of weeks I have seen the damage that Facebook can do in the lives of others and I have reached the conclusion that if you can’t ban yourself from social media (this includes Twitter and other media apps), then at least fill your feed with positive stuff.
Oh! And don’t enter into debate on posts that you know are going to cause you grief.
I’m not advocating walking away from the world however I am advocating switching off from it on occasion.
There is a great amount of beauty in this world. There is a great amount of good.
The trouble these days is that those good and beautiful things are getting bogged down under the horrid ones.
It’s up to us to seek them out.
Take the time to kick off your shoes and walk through the grass. Feel the sunlight on your face.
Smell the flowers.
Find a hobby that brings you joy.
Shut down and turn off what is dragging you down.
We can all contribute to spreading more good news in the world through our words and actions.
This is something I am trying my hardest to do. Wouldn’t it be great if we started a good news revolution?
So, I have expressed my opinion (ha ha) and now I’m interested to know how others deal with negativity in their lives and would love you to let me know.
I really look forward to reading your thoughts.
In the meantime, have a blessed day. š
I read my newspaper every day, but I stay away from those news shows on TV. H thinks I don’t know what is going on in the world because of that reason, but I feel I know enough! He can enlighten me if there is something life-threatening! LOL! Laugh…laugh a lot and that helps to deal with all that negativity too! š Great post!
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Laughter is definitely a great thing Elle. Anyone who know me knows that I am that loud laugher. lol
I agree that reading the paper (sometimes the headlines and first paragraph are more than enough) is good way to keep up with things.
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Right – sometimes those headlines are scary! Just posted a funny on your Facebook page. š
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I just got it. š Thanks for that. Are you Lindy or Elle?
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I write under Elle Knowles and the way I set my author page up on Facebook, I can’t like or comment on Facebook pages through it. š¦ Elle is my first initial spelled out and Knowles is my maiden name. Does that make sense?
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Yes it does. Thanks Lindy. š
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I feel the same Sue although I too probably contribute sometimes to negative posts but that’s just being human. To be aware and to try to change things is a positive move. I do not watch the News anymore, it may make me an ignorant person but its just too sad and tragic and the media these days just feeds off it like a shark. I catch up on Ninemsn during the day but reading it is okay, seeing it is another thing. Good post with good thoughts to ponder. Have a great day singing š
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On the navy, you can sail the seven seas. In the navy….. Rofl
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Still š ….. I have images of a dancing Sue in her flannelette PJs around the kitchen singing??
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Nah. By that time I was already half out the door to go shopping for a birthday present for Mr Almost Four lol
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Suzanne, you raised an excellent point about sharing in social media human suffering, politics, the state of the world, or animal cruelty for awareness.
I never thought of it this way. And if we share these items, our newsfeed , particularly on Facebook will have similar news items, filtered through pages we like, or sponsored links that are similar to what we like, comment and share. The positive items will never make it to the newsfeed.
In answer to your question, I really try to surround myself with positive people. Even if is a WordPress blog, as I look for new bloggers to follow, I will look in the comments. Are they encouraging comments? I want someone who will build me up and encourage me, before I even look at their blog and click the “Follow” button.
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Then I feel all the more appreciative of your follow. š
It is sometimes difficult to surround ourselves with positive people all the time however if we do it as much as possible it has to make a difference right?
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It does make a difference, (in my opinion anyways)!
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I have met many people who have made the same decision as you and have found the same difference. š
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The MS feeds the entire planet almost pure negativity every day. I switched off from the so called news over a year ago. It’s tough enough without that garbage.
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I agree. Like I said, I like to keep up with most of it but I tend to tune out or turn off the negative stuff as much as possible.
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Great Post Suz. I have stopped watching the TV news. I catch up on world events online when I want and avoid being bombarded by all the horrible stuff going on that the mainstream news tends to focus on and feeds us. It’s not all doom and gloom but I seem to have to skim over a lot of the bad news and search for uplifting interesting articles. I remember watching some silly tv show where the guest brought their conflicts to be sorted out on-air. All that yelling and anger changed my mood and I felt angry and unsettled. I remember thinking to myself, Gee how could someone watch this stuff every day. What’s that saying… you are what you eat?
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It sounds as if you are describing the The Jerry Springer Show. That show used to make me laugh because it was so over the top. I used to make bets with the GG to see which person would a) hit someone b) tear clothes or c) get carried off by the bouncers. It added an extra dimension to the show. lol
However, I can see how all that anger would unsettle you. I don’t think people realise the energy that emanates from them when they are showing high emotion of any kind.
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That’s right… Jerry Springer. Was that the beginning of “reality tv”?
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I don’t know but it was certainly entertaining.
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I agree Sue. While my other blog has tendencies to be sort of negative in a way it’s more like a purging. I try to keep my FB upbeat and to interact with friends in a fun way or post pics. I’ve also reduced the amount of news I used to read and watch. I used to know every little thing and it stressed me out even more. Plus, it’s all sound bytes anyway so you don’t REALLY get good news so what’s the point? Life is about balance I think…and everyone’s different, but I really do enjoy laughing and smiling over stressing out.
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I think the majority of people in the world enjoy laughing and smiling over stressing out Laura, so you aren’t alone with that one.
I think we need an outlet for our emotions – which is why I blog. I try to keep it as upbeat as I possibly can but it doesn’t always work out that way unfortunately.
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We love your blog warts and all! š
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Nawwww shucks š³
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I hear you Sue!! I have a friend on FB who is an activist and posts every horrible thing that’s going on in the world – and with great bias!! I can’t stand it and rarely respond. I don’t watch the news either – or maybe once a week. The media hounds us with very biased reporting of horrors too. They just serve to further inflame emotions!! Great post Sue!! We must never lose sight of goodness and beauty and I’m grateful.
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Thanks Cybele.
I take my hat off to people who are passionate about something but they need to strike a balance between their passion and the good things in life.
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I have walked away. When I post on FB, I post a photo, or tell one of my “I Love Lucy” moments, or my kooky observations of life.
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That works for me. š
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I agree 100% Suz. i just read the headlines in the internet version of our (Canadian) national newpaper once every few days. I too don’t usually comment on posts that are too negative. Good call.
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I wish I could turn away from the comments sometimes but they just beckon me…
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Excellent post!!
A story: two years ago, my house was broken into and the only thing stolen was my TV (dumb, dumb crooks). Anyway, I got out of the habit of turning on the TV in the morning before work and after work, too. Not having the TV on kept me from hearing so much negativity (and having it repeated over and over and over). What an unusual blessing!
If not for the break in, that wouldn’t have happened!
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Isn’t that funny? I remember when my oldest two were little and I was a single parent, our tv broke down. It meant that we had no tv for a couple of months because I couldn’t afford to get it repaired. We read books and did other stuff and if I remember correctly the kids didn’t worry about it at all.
Right now, I refuse to have the tv on during the day (as it’s only me home) and tbh I don’t really have any idea what the big news stories are right at this moment.
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For. E it is the little things in each day that make me smile. Sometimes you really have to look for them. It they’re there when you do. These are the things I fill my blog with, on the whole, although I do have the occasional rant.
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Rants are good to get things out of your system but looking for the beauty in the little things each day is magic. š
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