It’s January 1st.
Last night my Teen asked us both “What are your resolutions for the new year”? The Garden Gnome and I both simultaneously replied “We don’t make them”.
(On a side note: That is happening so often lately that it scares me. I can be thinking about someone/something and then the Garden Gnome comes out and says exactly what I was thinking. It’s either a really cool thing or kinda creepy. I haven’t worked that one out yet).
So, where was I?
That’s right…
The subject of New Year’s resolutions and the fact that I don’t make them.
I learned long ago that there is no point in saying something like “This year I am going to get fit/lose weight/run a marathon” at the beginning of each year.
Setting goals and taking steps to achieve those goals is something that should be ongoing.
Will I pull out the goals that I have written down and review them today? Yes, I will.
Will I tweak certain aspects of them? Yes, I will.
But I refuse to make ‘resolutions’ on the first of each year only to have them fall by the wayside by the second week of January.
So many people make their resolutions and then throw themselves at their goals with 200% enthusiasm and excitement only to crash and burn. Wouldn’t it be better to set a goal and then break it down into smaller and achievable steps that will ultimately lead to exactly what you want?
Well that is my plan anyway.
I have on-going goals. As part of those goals there were some smaller steps that I wished to achieve before the end of the year. I got close to some of them but didn’t quite make it. So it’s time to review and readjust. I still have the same long term goal. I just need to be more realistic about the steps taken to meet it.
Part of doing that is to redo my vision board for the year and assess what I have accomplished over the past twelve months.
My vision board was filled with things that I wished to do/achieve in the past year. Some I have been able to complete and some will carry forward into this year. My reasons for not achieving them were sometimes outside of my control. It doesn’t mean that the dream is dead, just that the goal posts have moved.
So today I am going to spend quietly with my pad on my lap as I reassess my long term goals and set short term goals to be met by the end of the month. I am going to pull apart my old vision board and create a new one for the coming year. The finished board will sit on my bedside table where I look at it each day and envision a future that holds these dreams.
It is now 2015.
I have a blank book with 365 pages to write on.
One step at a time.
I completely agree about breaking our goals down into smaller ones. That makes them much more achievable. Happy New Year! Here’s to a great 2015!
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It makes it that much easier to achieve the bigger goal really because you don’t feel like giving up.
I’m all for a great 2015. I hope you have one too.
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Making resolutions never works. It’s n Pou the new years here just yet, 5:45PM.
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I hope your New Year is wonderful. 🙂
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Thanks, we are starting this year with fighting our HOA about completing our back yard. You know, spending money we don’t have to spend eh?
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Well I hope that it gets better from here. 🙂
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My New Year’s resolution was not to make any resolutions. Thinking about it though, I failed as I actually made a resolution not to make a resolution and that’s a resolution in itself! Now I’m confused! 🙂 Happy New Year! I wish you well with your goals, Suze. I also work better with smaller goals.
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Ha ha. Have you recovered from your confusion yet Jane? lol
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Both those things happen with age and experience — being in sync with your partner, and being guided by wisdom. You are obviously great at both. Good luck with those little things leading to the big ones.
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Mona, you always know how to give the loveliest compliments. Thank you.
I wish you wonderful blessings for this year.
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Thanks. Your kind appreciation is an early blessing.
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It’s almost like reading each others mind and it’s scary isn’t it. Trouble is, imagine how bad it is when I’ts started to happen when Mike visits too, I don’t want to get inside that mucky mind.
You’ve got a great attitude towards New Year’s resolutions.. It’s fine to set goals for the year starting today, but they have to be realistic and achievable, and preferably well managed.
I hope you have a very successful year and that bit by bit you empty your board.
xxx Massive Hugs xxx
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I wish that also David.
I’m not sure I’d be too thrilled about being able to read Mike’s mind though. 😉
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Nor me ! 😀
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I do the same Suz – look at the bigger picture and steer in a direction. The tasks will define themselves as I go along. Best of the New Year to you and yours.
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I think that’s a good way to go Paul. If you take smaller steps toward the larger prize, it becomes more achievable.
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Yes, one day at a time. NO jumping to conclusions of second guessing. What is that cliched but appropriate saying, Look not to the past but to the present, or you may miss the future. … That’s why it’s called the present. It is indeed a gift!!!
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It certainly is. Thank you for your words of wisdom.
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I am looking forward to the pages of your 2015 book you share with us!
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Thanks April. Let’s hope it filled with more joy and hope than sadness. 🙂
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I’m sure it will.
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Great post Sue and I will try to make that vision board this year… 😛
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I think the most fun part of the vision board Irene is looking through old magazines for photos. That is the most time consuming because I keep stopping to re-read articles. lol
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It sounds fun Sue. I will try to make my board for one month at time and then move the ones, if they need more time.
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That sounds like a good plan Irene. 🙂
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I like that idea of a vision board. I’ll have to figure out how to set one up for myself.
The first day of the year is a good time to review your goals, like you said you’re doing. Not so much because it’s the first of the year though. It’s the nature of the holiday, which in my mind means the pace is slower and, therefore, there’s time for this type of reflection. I don’t know if you have Labor Day in Australia, but here in the US this day is also a good one for reflection for the same reason.
Happy New Year, Suzanne! ❤
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I think our Labour Day holiday used to be in May but they changed it to October. I’m not sure.
We have Australia Day on January 26th though.
My vision board is still a work in progress. As this is my third year in putting one together, it should take less time but I still find myself distracted reading magazine articles whilst looking for pictures and words. lol
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I think what I’ll start off with, once I buy the board, is just putting up notes that I know for sure need to be addressed in my near future. Like give myself a deadline for this stupid 1st rough draft.
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That sounds like a plan Glynis. 🙂
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I don’t make them either but I like the idea of your vision board.
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I like the vision board because it is something that I can look at each day and it works its way into my subconscious.
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Hapoy New Year 🙂
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Happy New Year to you also Elaine. I have been following your blog but haven’t commented lately. I hope you enjoyed your Christmas.
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Thank you, likewise, I read your posts but I don’t always have a comment xx
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I made resolutions last year and then a few weeks later I forgot about them. I looked through my journal yesterday and discovered them. Luckily I accomplished most of them, mostly because they were pretty general: read more, write more, walk more. This year I need to keep them in the forefront. I like the idea of breaking them into smaller goals and perhaps I need a vision board, or at least I need to hang them up somewhere so I can see them. Wishing you happiness and success in the new year!
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Thanks Jenn. Good luck with your goals this year. 🙂
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